What should the woman who learns that she is vaginismus?

Fear of the first night (Gerdek gecesi) is a type of fear that fills all the girls' minds with imaginary constructions since childhood. The first night is a type of fear that occurs with the hearing stories that will be very difficult, very painful, very irritable, unable to walk afterwards, unable to sit, the penis will get trapped in the vagina, something like a broomstick will come in,

This fear is fueled by information that is constantly circulating. When the first evening comes, the mind perceives this virtual fear as real because the mind tends to create its own subjective world. When a full relationship is to occur, the panic statement on the body of the mind creates; heart attack, rhinorrhea irregularity, contraction, avoidance, mate pushing etc.

These indications are so high that she is a different kind of woman. It lives in a different situation.

If the source of fear is a real situation, the problem can be solved by treating it. For example, a dice problem and associated pain. However, after a horrendous virtual process, the mind has to create a subjective world of its own and perceive it as real, alcohol testing does not solve the problem.

Dr. Murat Ulusoy According to vaginismus In the treatment; education and vaginal control exercises, as well as the fact that it is necessary to get rid of the hypotenuse of the mind and relax it. The success rate for this triple compliant treatment is very high.

The vaginismus woman should start treatment without losing time. If it makes any displacement, any relationship that flows through the years like water, tried and unsuccessful is carrying deeper into vaginism.

The woman who learns that it is vaginismus should leave a sorrowful side where she lived and tell her that her husband is a disease. At this point in your mind, "No, it is not an illness, and you do it if you want it" or "Let's leave it to the time" brings the lack of solution. Just as a physician is assisted in other mental and mental illnesses, vaginismus should be assessed in the same category.

One important point is that you have to stay away from experiences that will create distrust and challenge you.

Dr. Murat Ulusoy